What is Reinvent Ideal?

What to do when you’re depressed and no one cares because you’re not a chick.

Reinvent Ideal is an online community/library/resource center made specifically to help men navigate the riddles of life and dramatically improve their living conditions.

From Childhood on, we’re told that the ideal is to:

Go to school & get good grades
So you can go to college & get more good grades
Use those good grades to get a good job
Climb the corporate ladder.
Find a nice girl, be incredibly sweet to her, then wife her up.
Have kids & start a family.
Buy a house in the suburbs with a white picket fence & be actively involved in the community.

This is the life advice passed down to young boys by their parents because in their day, it worked.

Those days are over and gone forever.

Here's the New Reality of Today's World

K-12 schooling exists just to provide babysitting jobs for stupid, lazy people. You will learn nothing new there after 2nd grade.
College will not educate nor liberate you. It will enslave you, either with debt or with “in-the-box”, closed-minded adherence to their indoctrination. Also, if college were so beneficial, why do so many attendees need a student loan bail-out?
Good grades in school do not translate to acquiring a good job, nor do they help in any way. In America’s work-force, it’s all who you know and who you blow that matters.
Corporate America is a dangerous place for men, particular with HR departments of today, as it is ran by psychopathic ideologues that hate straight males and makes them jump through the ridiculous hoops of humiliating wokeness for their amusement. One little misstep or misspeak (or false accusation of wrong-doing) can have you expelled from the economy.
Further, hard work in Corporate America is not rewarded here. It’s exploited.
Finding a nice girl is like finding a clean needle in a dumpster full of used heroine needles. The typical American woman is most often a single mother, a mentally-ill psychopath, a bitch with a chip on her shoulder, and/or obese.
If you happen to find a nice girl, being sweet and loving to her is not rewarded. That gets you ghosted, flaked on, and friend-zoned.
Getting married in America with a state-certified marriage is like entering into an unconscionable contract. While divorce is destructive, what’s often not discussed is the tragically low marital satisfaction rate in America.
Starting a family today in America is a dangerous proposition. For one, Keynesian economics and modern monetary theory has made the cost of living difficult enough for the individual and nearly impossible for a family. What once was a blessing has become a burden.
Further, the kids may love their father when they’re small, but once they go to k-12 schooling, let alone college, or even if they just peruse social media, they will be indoctrinated to hate him (because he’s part of the “evil patriarchy”), blame him for their life failures, and may even be a financial burden on him well into their adulthood.
Buying a house in today’s economy is now a privilege only for the rich. Again, thanks to Keynesian economics and modern monetary theory.

You may have been told by your parents, peers, teachers, preachers, and bosses that doing these things are moral/social imperatives you “must” do.

Reinvent Ideal encourages men to chart a different course.

We advocate men exploring all their options to live their most ideal lives and first investigate the potential pros and cons of each decision to that effect.

Reinvent Ideal proposes something different: the ideal life for a male is to create a life that he is grateful for and chart the course for his life that best acheives that.

Your purpose is to grateful.

The greatest moral calling you can achieve for yourself and your fellow humans is to live a life that gives you gratitude.

That is because there isn’t a single happy person on earth that is ungrateful. And there isn’t a single good person on earth that is ungrateful.

Think of this: if a person is grateful, what reason do they have to do evil acts? Only those who are ungrateful are good at coming up with justifications for their sins. They may feel entitled to something, and have not received it, thus use that as justification for their bad deeds. This goes for feeling victimized by life, while ignoring the blessings of it.

Exploring All Your Options

Thus, the best thing for men to do is pursue not a life of fulfilling moral and social imperatives pressed upon them by others, but by pursuing a life that will make them grateful.

It could be the traditional way of being married with children. If you know the potential consequences of what you’re walking into, go ahead and knock yourself out.

It could also be living the “Player” lifestyle of working a rotation of women indefinitely, living like Hugh Hefner.

Or it could even be some blending of the two.

The purpose of Reinvent Ideal is not to give recommendations, but explanations. It is not to tell you how you should live, but how you could live.

I don’t presume to think I can make you into a “high-value man”. But I do hope to help you become a happy man.

Who is this For?

The average, frustrated male who is not getting the results he wants with his life, with women and feels his existence is going unacknowledged and overlooked by all around him
The somewhat successful man who has some areas of his life together, such as his career and finances, but is now starting to see voids in his life that he does not know how to fill, such as relationships with women.
The life-long bachelor that is already good with women but feels tremendous pressure from society and peers to give it and get married. He knows he wouldn’t be happy giving up his current lifestyle of dating many women non-exclusively but fears the dreadful warnings from others that he’ll be a lonely old man if he doesn’t settle down.

Who is Cairo Copeland?

The blog posts, videos, and multimedia on these subjects are produced by me, Cairo Copeland, a dating coach and personal trainer for men.

Being the result of an unplanned pregnancy to two parents who hated each other and fought frequently, even violently, I have made it my life’s mission to seek to create a better coexistence between men and women. Through study of behaviorism and western sociology, I incorporated many of my findings in my personal training sessions with my male clients. And they reported to me that they began to see positive changes in their relationships with their wives/girlfriends.

I am not a pickup artist.
I am not a MGTOW.
And I am not an MRA.

I am merely an advocate for a better world where there is a more peaceful coexistence between men and women.

A world where males and females understand one another, know how to form and maintain romantic relationships without unnecessary stress, and a world where they have a lot more safe, consensual sex is a happy world. Further, it’s a safer world for all inhabitants.

Who Are You?

To the frustrated man – The world encourages you to be a socially inept incel. Do not be angry if you turned out this way. No one in the traditional upbringing could show you how to be successful as a male in today’s world. No one teaches you how to get women to like you. Women expect you to already know how to do that. And if you ask them for advice, they will give you advice that will make you less desirable.

The body of knowledge presented on this site was put together specifically for you. For the guy that’s been friend-zoned, flaked on, ghosted on and dumped without explanation. For the guy that’s fallen hard on the floor, contemplated suicide and feels unlovable.

To the successful man – There are some men that have achieved positive results in their social and romantic lives. But too often, these men become careless and complacent with holding the frame. Later their lives unravel and their achievements dissipate. To maintain and preserve the optimal life you have created, one must stay in control of their conditions.

Much like how credentialed professionals stay on top of their professions with continuing education, the body of knowledge presented here can serve the same purpose. Always be improving your conditions and they’ll never deteriorate. The moment the battle ends is the moment that the people in power lose power.

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